Disobedient BodiesAn unmissable, radical essay from Emma Dabiri, bestselling author of Don't Touch My Hair and What White People Can Do Next What part of your beautiful self were you taught to hate? We spend a lot of time trying to improve our 'defects', according to society's ideals of beauty. But these ideals are often reductive, tyrannical, and commercially entangled, imposed upon us by oppressive systems and further strengthened by our conditioned self loathing.